Step 1:  Pause and Pay Attention to Your Toxic Thoughts or Limiting Beliefs

Fears that come to mind when you think of releasing weight:

• I’ve failed so many times in the past, why will I be successful this time?

• I can’t do this.

• What if I put the weight back on?

• What if I fail?

• What if it takes too much time to prepare everything?

• How will I cope without sugar?

• What if I get overwhelmed?


Step 2:  Pray and ask God to fill the needs that you are manifesting as fears

If this is your fear, then this is what you need from God:

  • Rejection – we want acceptance and trust
  • Failure – we want success
  • Judgment – we want grace and unconditional love
  • Feeling unwanted – we want to feel loved and accepted
  • Loneliness – we want companionship
  • Injury – we want safety
  • Neglect – we want love and affirmation
  • Death – we want life and vitality
  • Abandonment – we want support and affirmation
  • Success – we want affirmation, ongoing support, and unconditional love
  • Condemnation – we want acceptance
  • Humiliation – we want edification and grace
  • Losing Control – we want control and peace
  • Inferiority – we want self-esteem and affirmation
  • Powerlessness – we want control and hope
  • Being misunderstood – we want acknowledgement, acceptance, and grace
  • Feeling worthless – we want self-esteem and love
  • Feeling devalued – we want value and acceptance

Phrases and Declarations 

"I am doing the best that I can."

"I’m striving for progress, not perfection."

"Perfection focuses on me, not God."

"God is in control."

"Everything is as it should be."

"There is nothing to worry about."

"What’s important is what God thinks of me."

"My assignment is to please God, not man."

"I am loved lavishly by God."

"I deserve to take care of myself."

"I choose to live in the solution and not the problem."

"I am responsible for my life."

"I can take action without knowing all the facts."

"I am loved just the way I am."

"I don’t need to know."

"I am loved and admired by God."

"I have nothing to prove."

"I am made in the image of God."

"God will fight for me."

"I am not my past."

Prayers and Declarations

"Thank you God that you are healing/helping/strengthening/working on me according to your perfect schedule."

"Your grace is sufficient."

"Lord, I choose to stand in your truth and not worry about what’s happening around me. You are in control and that’s all that matters."

"Lord I thank you that my only desire is to please you and not man."

"Lord, I thank you that you paid the ultimate sacrifice for me. I am worthy and free to live the life you designed for me to live."

"Lord, I thank you that my greatest desire is to know YOU intimately and earnestly. I see myself as valuable and beautiful just as you see me."


  • I am confident that God will perfect the work He has begun in me (Phil. 1:6).
  • I have not been given a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-discipline (2 Tim. 1:7).
  • I am given God’s glorious grace lavishly and without restriction (Eph. 1:5,8).
  • I am assured all things work together for good (Rom. 8:28).
  • I have peace (Eph. 2:14).
  • I am safe (I Jn. 5:18).
  • I can give thanks for everything (Eph. 5:20).
  • I don’t have to always have my own agenda (Eph. 5:21).
  • I am chosen and dearly loved by God (1 Thes. 1:4).
  • I am created in the image of God (2 Cor. 4:4).
  • I am not helpless (Phil. 4:13).
  • I am blessed in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing (Eph. 1:3).
  • I am forgiven (Eph. 1:8Col. 1:14).
  • I have a purpose (Eph. 1:9 & 3:11).
  • I can be kind and compassionate to others (Eph. 4:32).
  • I am set free (Rom. 8:2Jn. 8:32).
  • My heart and mind are protected with God’s peace (Phil. 4:7).
  • Possess the mind of Christ (I Cor. 2:16).

Step 3:  Active Practice

Here are some examples of active practice:

  • Take a step forward to show that you are walking out of your past.
  • Putt your hands over your heart to show how much you are loved by God.
  • Stomp on the toxic thought to remove it from your life.
  • Exalt the name of the Lord.
  • Smile and visualize that God is pleased with you.
  • Lift your hands to the sky in surrender.
  • Clap your hands in victory.
  • Sing a verse of a related song.
  • Draw or sketch something.
  • Visualize Jesus sitting beside you.